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10 No-Stress First Date Ideas

December 17th, 2007 by SugarPrincess

Asking a person out can be stressful enough but once you’ve found someone to agree to going on a date with you, you may find yourself under the immense pressure of planning a first date.  Planning a first date can be stressful because you want everything to go smoothly and you also want to set yourself up for a second date.  The ideal first date offers the couple a chance to get to know each other in a casual atmosphere that doesn’t put too much pressure on them to keep up a constant stream of small talk.  While first dates are the perfect opportunity to get to know someone new, if you are apprehensive about too much conversation on the first date, you can plan a date that focuses more on an activity than on conversation.  This type of date which focuses on a fun filled activity may be beneficial in leading to a second date.  First dates don’t have to be stressful and there are many activities that are perfect for whatever type of first date you are looking to have.

Dinner theater is a perfect no-stress first date idea.  The atmosphere is usually cozy and romantic and provides the perfect blend of conversation and entertainment.  While a traditional dinner date can lead to awkward pauses in the conversation and the stress of juggling dinner and conversation, a dinner theater alleviates this stress because the meal is usually served during the performance.  This allows you to eat your meal without having to worry about small talk.  Intermissions are a great opportunity for the couple to get to know each other and if you have trouble with a conversation starter you can always fall back on talking about the performance. 

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How to Survive a First Date (and Guarantee a Second One)

July 16th, 2007 by SugarPrincess

First dates can be daunting but this article will offer a few tips for not only surviving a first date but also guaranteeing a second date.  You can not only survive your first date but ensure a second one by carefully planning the date while remaining flexible, being tidy, polite and courteous, being relaxed and honest on your date, being committed to having a good time and sharing about yourself without monopolizing the conversation.  These tips will help you survive your first date and also go a long way towards securing a second date. 

Careful planning will help you to survive your first date and may lay the groundwork for a second date.  Make sure you have planned out the date ahead of time and made arrangements to ensure that the date runs smoothly.  On a first date it is best not to leave anything to chance or to rely on making on the spot decisions about what to do next because doing so can create uncomfortable moments on the date.  Don’t just plan out what you would like to do on the date but also map out the best routes to arrive at your destinations and pre-arrange any necessary reservations so you don’t wind up not being able to find your destination or waiting a long time for an activity.  While careful preparation before the date will ensure that everything runs smoothly and will eliminate any unnecessary tension on the date you may still need to remain flexible.  Despite your best efforts, you may suffer a snag in your plans and being flexible and willing to adapt your plans will prevent you and your date from being frustrated on the date.  Your date will be impressed that you went to so much trouble in planning the date and will be flattered by your efforts. 

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Etiquette to Observe During Dating

June 26th, 2007 by SugarPrincess

Etiquette is not a word that is used much these days, but what it represents still matters and is looked for in different ways by people. Etiquette refers to behavior and mannerisms that reflect on a person. Etiquette is also about how an individual’s behavior and action affect others.

 The mannerisms that are important include being courteous, respectful to others, and behaving in a way so that the public has a perception of you that is positive. Your date needs to be courteous because it affects what others will think. And while you can’t always be concerned about what others think, nor should it rule how you behave, you have to conform to certain norms in society and being courteous is one of them.

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Tips for Dating on a Budget

May 8th, 2007 by SugarPrincess

Impressing your date doesn’t have to diminish your wallet.  With a little resourcefulness and imagination you can plan dates that are a lot of fun and also very inexpensive.  Not only will you be saving a load of money but your date will be impressed with your creativity.  Inexpensive date ideas can include coffee houses, outdoor activities, theater and the arts, cooking and other fun activities. 

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What If You’re Disappointed When You Meet In Person?

December 12th, 2006 by SugarPrincess

Online dating can really be amusing. A lot of people even find it workable and gratifying. In fact, there are more benefits than you might realise if you haven’t tried it for yourself.

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First Impression: Advice for That First Date

November 30th, 2006 by SugarPrincess

First dates are tough situations. Often they can end up being painfully awkward. So what do you do?

Here is a list of dating tips to help you and your date get started on the right foot:

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Dating Ideas For the Clueless

November 16th, 2006 by SugarPrincess

First dates never cease to be the one of the most thrilling events in one’s life. However, dating can become boring if one allows it to be. Here are a few great dating ideas that will make your time interesting.

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